13 Things You Didn't Know About African Fathers

 

Here are 13 things you didn't know about our African fathers. Or perhaps, you know… lolz!

1. They are so deep in African culture and values. Many of our African fathers love to wear their native African clothes, eat their African foods, and speak their African languages. In as much as they appreciate foreign things, they are well proud of their African culture and values.
2. They are disciplinarians. For our African fathers, discipline equals love. What may seem like strictness is often a deeply rooted form of love, aiming to build discipline, resilience, hardwork, and character in children.
3. They’re great storytellers. Our African fathers are great storytellers. They pass down wisdom, history, and life lessons through oral stories, proverbs, and African adages.
4. They're deeply spiritual. Our African fathers carry a strong connection to faith and spirituality. This shapes how they guide their families. Many of us grew up in religious homes following the doctrines and ordinances (given by our fathers) for our religious faith.
5. They sacrifice in silence. Our fathers carry silent burdens. They work hard to make ends meet and do whatever it takes to ensure our families survive and thrive. They also don’t express their struggles openly but silently bear the weight of family responsibilities and societal expectations.
6. They value education deeply. Our African fathers value education deeply. Despite limited means, many of our African fathers prioritize our education, seeing it as the gateway to freedom and a good life.
7. They are always contented and not materialistic. Our fathers are always satisfied with what they have. They don't envy other people's things, and they respect and honor the properties of others. They are a people of integrity and character.
8. They are role models. Our African fathers lead by example. Whether it’s waking up early, showing hospitality, or handling conflict, our fathers teach more through action than words.
9. They mentor the community. Many of our African fathers serve as mentors, coaches, counselors, and spiritual leaders in our neighborhoods. This allows many of us to learn from them even if they are not our biological fathers.
10. They are custodians of African tradition. From naming ceremonies to rites of passage, our fathers are key in preserving and passing on cultural heritage. They love respect and value everyone that expresses it.
11. They know more than they let on. Many of our African fathers may appear quiet or unassuming but carry deep knowledge about situations, politics, and environment. So, you hardly know all what they know. They are good at keeping secrets and private information.
12. They love proverbs. Our fathers love to teach and speak in proverbs. This is because the proverbs are full of wisdom, and they easily express whatever they are trying to say in short words. So yes, speaking in proverbs is one of their hobbies. For example – “A child who does not travel thinks only his mother is the best cook.” Our fathers pass on lessons through timeless sayings. Check my blog to read more about some Yoruba proverbs. Click here
13. They dream big for their children. Last but not least is – our African fathers love us so much that they dream big for us. They always desire a better life for us. They always want us to do well in every area of our lives, and they keep encouraging and supporting us. And very importantly, they always carry a huge dream of us living a better life than theirs. Oh, what great fathers, indeed!

Finally, 

Happy Father’s Day to all the incredible fathers out there!

May you continue to shine as the gems and guiding lights that you are in our lives and in the world. We celebrate you, we honor you, and we love you deeply.

Thank you for your unwavering strength, your quiet sacrifices, and the love you pour out every single day.

Here’s to long life, abundant joy, and endless prosperity. God bless you!

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